Arthur Roberts, MA Editor and Co-Director, The GestaltPress
Book Description
When a couple steps into the work of Bert Hellinger, the partners are entering a realm of uncommon solution. Hellinger's approach -- family constellations and the underlying observations from which they take shape -- taps into the deepest dynamics of a relationship. People begin to see just how unseen forces, including non-present family members and those of past generations, and the choices that were made long ago, affect the current partners' connections with each other at many different levels.
Supporting Love presents verbatim transcripts of constellations with numerous couples, supplemented by questions, commentary, and discussion, to bring this multidimensional process into focus. Typically, a constellation moves through two stages. In the first, hidden -- yet compelling -- influences on the family are revealed. In the second phase, healing movements and statements are discovered -- or recovered -- and then tested within the constellation. The "psychic adjustment" that takes place, whether great or small, expands the couple's vocabulary in creating solution.
Bert Hellinger's voice is clear and strong on such topics as love, suffering, bonding, giving and taking, parenthood, childlessness, faithfulness, separation, and sexuality. Throughout the book, there are moments of exquisite clarity and moments of uneasy surprise: the resonance and discord of new insights into the ways we can support love -- and the ways that love can support us.
