a truly awesome reading experience, at the same time crime, family drama, philosophical meditation, and what else!! At the beginning I thought "oh no, not another husband/wife/lover triangle...". But I was soon mesmerized! What the other commentary says is quite right, especially about the man's point of view: a real tour de force, it does not smack of a woman desperately trying to get inside her male character's head. The allusions to Bhuddism, on the surface casual and offhand, actually structure the book at a deep level: clever!!