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Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
 
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Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship [Format Kindle]

Sherry Argov
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MORE THAN ONE MILLION COPIES SOLD!

Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov's national bestseller Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The New York Times bestselling author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:

  • Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
  • Why do men take nice girls for granted?
  • Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, the author's unique "Attraction Principles," and an all-new bonus chapter, Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.


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  • Nombre de pages de l'édition imprimée : 290 pages
  • Pagination - ISBN de l'édition imprimée de référence : 1580627560
  • Editeur : Adams Media; Édition : 6th edition (1 octobre 2002)
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5.0 étoiles sur 5 une bible ;) 24 février 2012
Par PiliPili
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Un bouquin qui beaucoup (énormément!) aidé durant mon adolescence et même à ce jour, j'avoue parfois y revenir lorsque j'entame une nouvelle relation ;)
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5.0 étoiles sur 5 Très intéressant 23 décembre 2013
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Les livres de développement personnel anglo-saxons sont beaucoup plus intéressants que ceux écrits par des auteurs français, car ils sont plus pragmatiques et plus objectifs. C'est le cas de celui-ci, qui détaille des observations et donne de vrais conseils concrets sans tomber dans les clichés. Très amusant à lire.
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3.0 étoiles sur 5 Très litteraire 22 novembre 2013
Par Pamy
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Il est vrai que j'aime lire mais j'avouerais qu'il est assez long.. Certes les exemples à l'intérieur ont énormément de valeurs mais bon cela est souvent un peu répétitif.
Certes la répétition est aussi le moyen de pouvoir bien asseoir les idées et surtout cela permet d'avoir des exemples illustratifs sur les attitudes à ne pas avoir.
Ce livre est un bon roman même si ce n'est mon préféré en matière de conseils sur les relations humaines car je le trouve un peu trop répétitif sur certains bords.. et trop centré sur un type de femme.

Ca vaut quand meme une lecture pour avoir un rappel/ mise à niveau des principes pour avoir un couple/relation réussie.. Mois axé néanmoins sur la chasse je dirais.

Bonne lecture
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Par Sarah
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Things we know, but always need to remember as we forget them easily when we fall in love... Lucky are the bitches born this way.
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5.0 étoiles sur 5 Great Tool For Specific Cases 20 mars 2004
Par E. Tara Scurry - Publié sur Amazon.com
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I've read a lot of relationship self help books including "The Rules". This books is excellent. This book is for those women who have, yes...been burned or who have a tendency to lose themselves in a relationship. If you've been with someone for years and everything is fine..then you don't need help. If you've a string of great relationships then you probably don't need this book either. Unfortunately for many women out there...they have been burned or have a tendency to bend over backwards for a man and lose their self respect for the sake of their relationship. This book is for these women. It can serve as a tool for internalizing positive messages and methods for not being conducive for trampling via feet.

Argov emphasies the time tested idea that you come first before anyone else. I've noticed that it is men who have given low marks to this book moreso than women. Once your read this book for yourself, you might see why. However, There are specific "tactics" she explains. It is far from trickery. And as even men have responded...her tactics work. Call them what you will, but there is little interaction between people which doesn't involve at least a little pre-planning, special manuvering, or cunning. Is this to say that when we read books about business...that those books are terrible because they use "trickery", manuvering and cunning to achieve company goals? Come on.

Someone else mentioned that they didn't agree with a chapter about "faking an orgasm". Don't listen to that. Obviously that person did not even read the book or is not very bright because in that chapter, Argov is cleary making fun of the concept. She writes "I don't recommend that a woman fake an orgasm. This little lesson is a satire on the pressures women feel to perform...It is much more of a turn-on to a man when a woman is able to be herself and she's honest about what she likes and dislikes."(71)

Finally, this book is not about playing games. Its about putting yourself first and taking responsibility for your own happiness, health, financial well-being, and rhythm. It is empowering and should be given to every woman who is having difficulty putting themself first and has a streak of nonfullfilling or short relationships (due to trying to be someone they are not or simply attracting feet).
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2.0 étoiles sur 5 A Man's Perspective on this Book 23 janvier 2004
Par Un client - Publié sur Amazon.com
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As a man who read this book, I have a new understanding of how and why my last girlfriend acted the way she did. She must have read this book!
I have to say, I chased after her, just like the book says a man will do if you follow the rules it describes. But, (and this is a big BUT), eventually, I got tired of chasing her. Eventually I came to the huge realization that I didn't want to live the rest of my life this way, under her thumb, with her making all the rules for our relationship.
Women have put up with men that act this way, and it drives you crazy, doesn't it? Don't you hate it when a guy doesn't call and acts like other things are more important than you are? This book could just as well have been written for men, and been titled, "Why Women Love Jerks."
As I read this book, I thought that if everyone, men and women alike, followed the rules contained in it, this world would be full of a lot of single people. Mainly because it's all about one person in the relationship (in this case, women) acting aloof, not chasing men, and not showing men that they're afraid to lose them. If both sexes acted this way, no one would get in a relationship because both would never chase the other. (In the hopes that the other one will first. It's not going to happen!)
All in all, this book seems to be written for women who have been hurt badly in the past and don't want to be hurt (or at least show that they're hurt) again. Anyone who has ever had the good fortune to have been in a GOOD relationship would never think of treating their mate like Sherry Argov suggests.
I gave this book 2 stars, because what's in it WILL work. But if you have to use "trickery" like this to get a man to chase you, you'll get a relationship to match. It's better to be honest with one another. If it doesn't work out, then move on until you find that NICE person who will treat you right, "games" or not!
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5.0 étoiles sur 5 She understands the male mind.. ..a guy's view 2 janvier 2006
Par L. Power - Publié sur Amazon.com
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Firstly, in this book BITCH means Babe In Total Control Of Herself.

She gives you priciples not 'rules' to transform from ignored or taken for granted doormat to relentlessly pursued dreamgirl, who is independent, strong, and not needy.

Initially, I wondered if Sherry is a guy, because she is so onto us. To her credit she did interview many men, to get these deep insights. In fact she has compiled our secret playbook.

I wonder if it is a good thing to have too many of our deep secrets in female hands, because it forces us to change our lazy relationship ways.

There is a self improvement principle - you teach people how to treat you. So do what you have always done, and get what you always got, or teach them how to treat you right.

So when Sherry suggests, acting a little aloof at first, this may seem counterintuitive, but it works. Staying out of relationship mode for a while, bypasses our natural defenses, and it works. Not giving away your personal power by being too much of a pleaser works. Communicating succinctly, I like that one.

Probably the most important lesson from this book is the importance of communication. A woman who calls a guy on his behavior, is showing several powerful things, she demonstrates higher value by not accepting bad behavior, she is not afraid to convey her feelings even if this might offend the guy, she is not timid and unassertive, she keeps the lines of communication honest, and open.

You will win some and lose some by following the advice in this book. Following this advice too rigidly will not work. It is a matter of finding a balance, and using what works for you. Think of this book as training wheels.

This book, is very good, and I probably should not recommend it but I do.

The bit about faking the orgasm, some reviewers don't like. As Sherry is a stand up comedian, this piece is just supposed to be humorous. In reality, you are teaching the guy that is he is already good enough, whereas some improvement might be required.

Some of the anecdotal advice is funny but extreme. The booty call guy left standing in the rain outside his apartment got his just desserts, but the red panties in the laundry tactic was too much.

My personal opinion, is we men are not that smart at non verbal communication, so things need to be spelled out more.

We also have a limited capacity for processing verbal information, in fact we go into safety shut down after about 30 seconds of talking. After that point, we just nod and grunt as if we are following along. I hope you find this review helpful, and the book enjoyable.
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1.0 étoiles sur 5 When You Meet the Real Deal... 16 mai 2010
Par S. Deshpande - Publié sur Amazon.com
Format:Broché
When you meet the real deal, the timing will be right, the circumstance will be right, and you won't have to play games. When you meet the real deal, they will call you when they say they will, you will call them back, and you won't have to worry if it's been 3 days or not. When you meet the real deal, you will be at a place in your life where you are ready to fall in love, real love, because you really love yourself, and therefore will be able to give love in return. There will be no red flags, there will be no lies, just openness and honesty. Your best bet is to take care of your whole self, live to your highest purpose, and know that everyone in this world has a light - and make sure yours shines as brightly as possible. Before you know it, when you are having a ton of fun by yourself, when you've been working out and eating healthy, stopping your self-sabotaging ways of drinking/drugs/toxic friendships/etc. and happy with yourself, 100%, looking and FEELING sexy & beautiful from head to toe on the inside and out, one day you'll look up and they will be right there. Real love is out there, you deserve the best, don't settle for less.

Get an education, get a career you feel great about, and support yourself. There's nothing more empowering than knowing you paid for that cute new outfit you're wearing or have all that money in the bank because YOU made it. Not relied on someone else to.

Just like you should ask only a rich man and not a poor one for advice on how to make money, you should only ask friends who are in authentic, truly happy relationships for love advice. Don't ask your single friends or married eh/bored/miserable friends to get to their sub-par status. They are where they are for a reason. Look up. Not down.

Why deal with level 4's when you're a 10? Granted, the ratio of men out there to women is often unfair, especially here in NYC, but settling just to have someone is not the strong choice.

Like attracts like. This book is about being a player. Guess what it's going to attract?

Guys have Neil Strauss' "The Game." That book isn't about getting love. It's about getting something else. I'd love to see a bestseller book out there for guys about getting real love. The one that supports you even when you fail, the one that forgives you when you mess up, the one that is there for you no matter what. It's like the traditional wedding vows say - patient, kind, not boastful, arrogant, proud. And real relationships take real work, it's another full-time job in many ways and you get what you put into it.

In short, know that while no one is perfect, that doesn't mean you can't find the person who is perfect for you. And when you meet the real deal, you'll be so happy with them, you'll forget this book ever existed.

Single girls, all I can say is keep your standards. Not the kind that are in delirium high-sky range, but the kind that avoids the dudes who are just no good for you. Notice red flags when you see them and accept them.

But most of all don't give up! :)
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1.0 étoiles sur 5 It didn't work on me. 8 décembre 2007
Par D. Driscoll - Publié sur Amazon.com
Format:Broché
I was dating a woman who all of the sudden starting acting like she didn't care, that she just wasn't interested. I responded the way book said I would. The problem was that I actually cared about her, so when she seemed upset or uninterested I attempted to correct the situation. I guess this taught her a lesson - Act like a B*itch and get what you want. That didn't last long at all. A week went by and She finally got around to calling me to inquire as to why I hadn't called her. I told her politely and honestly that she seemed uninterested and I didn't enjoy spending time with her anymore, she just seemed to have no respect for me and was acting rather childish. Another week went by and she called to confess this book (which led me here), and to apologize. She was sorry and wanted things to "go back to the way they were". Too little, too late, too bad. She just proved herself to be selfish and manipulative (not to mention stupid for believing this crap). You can learn not to be selfish and manipulative, but you can't cure stupid. I told her it was deceitful behavior on the same level as lying. That if there were a problem with our relationship and she wasn't getting what she wanted, then she should have talked to me about it. We could have tried to work things out and if it was unworkable, we could try again or part ways civilly.

Treating a man like crap as a means of conning him into getting what you want, is exactly what kind of foundation for a serious relationship?

I told her that she succeeded in changing me, that was for sure. I went from someone who cared about her to someone that didn't give a damn.

So in the spirit of making money by destroying relationships, I'll offer some advice.

When the person you're in a relationship with enjoys your company and attempts to spend time with you - Act uninterested or b*tch your way into doing something you know for a fact he isn't going to enjoy. Since he cares about you and wants you to be happy he'll do it, but keep doing this until he realizes that you really aren't interested and really are a B*tch. That way you can buy my self-help book about dealing with loneliness and depression.

That'll be $19.95.
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