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Save the Date: The Occasional Mortifications of a Serial Wedding Guest par [Doll, Jen]
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***This excerpt is from an advance uncorrected proof.***
Copyright © 2014 by Jen Doll

Allow me to begin by saying, I am very, very happy for you.

Allow me to begin by saying, Once upon a time there was a girl who met a boy, and they fell in love and wanted to be together forever, and she wore white, and he wore a tux, and they walked down an aisle strewn with rose petals into their bright, shining future. That girl was not me. Congratulations! Or is it best wishes? Here is your KitchenAid. Le Creuset Dutch oven. Kate Spade stemware. Crate& Barrel flatware. Highball glasses. Crystal paperweight shaped like a heart. Hundred- dollar gift card to that furniture store you like. “Informal pasta,” whatever that is; you had it on your registry, so it must be good! Four tea towels, a stainless-steel garlic press, a “Love” coaster set, a pack of organic coffee filters, and a butter knife, because I didn’t have a moment until just before this grand event to go online and buy you anything and that was all that was left. Your family sure is proactive. How can you stand them? Oh, here is your bowl. Yes, I bought you a bowl. I realize it wasn’t on your registry, but I got it for free when I bought the same bowl for myself. I guess that doesn’t mean I bought it so much as acquired it, but, wait, I’m talking too much, aren’t I? You look amazing! Cheers to the gorgeous couple! Yes, please, a refill would be excellent.

But let’s backtrack.


Sometimes they come once a year and seem like a good excuse to go on a vacation to a predetermined destination, a place with built-in friends and a legitimate purpose and even a prepared schedule of activities, a wedding gift basket waiting for you in the hotel room, packed with granola bars and locally derived tchotchkes and miniature bottles of sunscreen. Sometimes they come like migrating birds or wolves, in flocks or packs. When you glance behind your shoulder, there’s another one gaining ground, and you can’t seem to stay ahead of them no matter what you do. They’ve got their eye on you. Sometimes it seems every weekend is a wedding. On the odd occasion, one weekend brings two, forcing the invited into a perilous decision-making scenario that has grave, long-lasting consequences: Which couple will be anointed friends forever, and which will descend slowly but surely into the status of “mere acquaintances,” their big day having been forsaken? Intrepid guests who don’t want to choose will go to both, driving for miles, taking red-eye flights, swapping out dresses and shoes and jewelry and handbags and itineraries as if actors in a play or models in a fashion show, which is a not entirely inaccurate depiction of a particular State of Wedding Guesthood. This is just what’s happening to us right now, the wedding guest of a certain age will think, gasping for breath but shrugging it off, going along. We’ve reached that stage in life. It’s only temporary. This, too, will pass! At some point, surely, the perpetual wedding dance will cease, and we will be able to sit back in the comfort of our wedding guest retirement and possibly even save a little money by not going to so many weddings. But while we’re going to weddings, we should try to have fun at weddings. They only happen how many times a year? Well, we really have no other choice.

And oh, there is fun! There is plenty of fun. There’s fun even before you get to the chapel or the reception hall or the rented suite of the fancy hotel or the country club or your best friend’s parents’ backyard. The weeks and months preceding each wedding will inevitably involve secondary parties— bachelorettes and bachelors and showers and engagement celebrations and whatever else is deemed necessary to get the crowd pumped for the headliner. Do not be fooled by these seemingly casual add-ons: They are the octopus tentacles of the ultimate party, stretching farther in all directions, part and parcel of an event that in most cases, when all is said and done, guests will have shelled out rather a lot of time and energy and cash to attend. We do this willingly, even joyfully, because not only are we often actually quite happy to be there but also this is an algorithm we’ve been brought up to believe in. Tit for wedding tat; eventually it will be our turn, too, and we’ll get back everything we’ve given and possibly more. You go to my wedding; I’ll go to yours. I’ll buy you a heart-shaped waffle maker (in stainless steel, per your request); you’ll eventually return the favor with an enameled stockpot in Marseille blue. There’s little time to consider whether this formula will resolve as promised, who’s getting a better deal, or if we even want our turn in the wedding lineup of the ages—and if we do, how and when and why—because we’re already on to the after- party! The fun never stops.

To a single woman, a lifetime of weddings can begin to seem like a nuptial-themed Groundhog Day; we guests behaving slightly differently each time within the same basic framework as we strive for the ending that will put a stop to the unremitting weddings, or at least to the way we’ve been methodically acting our way through them. The story of a serial wedding goer is rarely the impeccable scenario depicted in the brochures and magazines or promised by the wedding planner, nor does it align with the aspirations of a pushy mother of the bride, an entitled groom, or one of those so-called bridezillas (such an awful word). The dream-wedding-in-the-bubble, the “perfect day” meticulously constructed to suit the whims or long-held fantasies of the marrying couple or their kin, is all too easily punctured by wedding guests who don’t share quite those same goals and aspirations. Or who get drunk and then decide they don’t. A “perfect day” becomes an entirely unrealistic concept when you start to let in the riffraff, not least because “perfect” is a matter of opinion. There is no “perfect day.” There is only the day upon which two people are married, for better or worse.

Revue de presse

“[A] wry Sex and the City-style memoir…Engaging and disarmingly honest.”

“Doll herself is a funny, bright, complicated leading lady…Contemporary heroines are not necessarily brides; they are also the friends, colleagues, classmates of brides, and their stories do not want for depth just ­because they’re not the ones wearing white. Doll’s own story — a good one — lays out a disruptive new path.”
The New York Times Book Review 

“Chronicled with the sharply wielded wit that presumably got [Doll] invited to so many weddings in the first place… [Save the Date] touches a cultural nerve, ultimately, because it summons, in unsparing detail, a cultural ritual as relentless as it is familiar.”

“A smart examination of just how weird weddings can be when put under the microscope….The ultimate wedding party favor is a good story. Doll has several.”

“A meditation on the marriage ceremony and on how, by bearing witness, we shape our perspectives on love, friendship, and commitment… Advice anyone seated at the singles table can take to heart.”
Entertainment Weekly

“Anyone who has ever witnessed a wedding will appreciate Jen Doll’s wry pew-side musings.”
Good Housekeeping

“An endearingly funny memoir of the writer’s vast experience watching other people get married—and the lessons she’s learned about love, friendship, and herself.”
O, The Oprah Magazine 

“To prepare yourself for the summer-wedding onslaught, grab Jen Doll’s ingeniously subtitled new book.”

Save the Date is the kind of amusing and inventive memoir that’s almost impossible to put down and ripe for sharing amongst friends (bring this baby to your next girls’ brunch and watch your lady friends clamor to be the first to borrow it). It’s breezy and quick and dead funny, but it also aims straight for the heart with the kind of wit and honesty anyone would want to cherish for many years to come.”

“Droll, charming…chock-full of hilarious observations…lively anecdotes…and lovely description.”


“Jen Doll knows all the ins and outs of attending and taking part in someone else's big day . . . for better or worse….[In Save the Date] she shares some thoughtful (and funny) insights into dating relationships, marriage, and friendship.”
Pop Sugar

“[Save the Date] offers witty and smart insights into modern wedding culture, while still having a good time with all the tomfoolery.”
The Frisky

“A witty, easily-devoured memoir, simultaneously personal and universal.”
The Huffington Post 

“The insightful, soothing literary balm you need when you’re stuck at the destination beach wedding you’ve paid too much to attend.”
The Daily Beast 

"Save the Date is a hilarious, open-eyed account of one woman's life as a wedding guest. Doll chronicles the good, the bad, and the drunken with wit and insight into the state of modern marriage."
— J. Courtney Sullivan, author of The Engagements and Maine

"Reading Save the Date is like attending a wedding with the coolest plus-one ever.  Jen Doll is witty, charming, and can see through all the BS of the wedding culture while still having a fun time with it."
—Drew Magary, author of Someone Could Get Hurt and The Postmortal

“Jen Doll's sharp, funny true tales of guesthood acknowledge—at last—that attending other people's weddings is a unique rite of passage in itself. Save the Date is a welcome companion.”
—Wendy McClure, author of The Wilder Life

“Jen Doll address relationships, romance, weddings, and love with the sharp and intuitive eye of a psychotherapist, and the impeccable comic timing of, well, an impeccably good comedian. Not only that, she coins a phrase that is not only brilliant, but important: ‘My unemployment jeans.’ Save the Date is a self-examination of the single gal at its cleverest, funniest best.”
—Sara Barron, author of People Are Unappealing: Even Me

“With humor and honesty…Doll offers a refreshing take on society’s evolving ideas on marriage and the importance of knowing oneself.”
Publishers Weekly  

“Doll is an engaging guide through the landscape of modern-day courtship and nuptials.”

“A thoughtful meditation on the institution of marriage…A great book to pack for the plane ride to that friend’s destination wedding… [a] fun rumination on love, marriage, and adult friendship.”
Library Journal 

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3.0 étoiles sur 5 "Mortifications" is the operative word... 16 juin 2014
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I usually try to separate the writer from the book in reviews, admittedly difficult when the book is a memoir. No question that Jen Doll is a good writer. She seems observant and intelligent. But I'm surprised that anyone found this book funny. Amusing in spots, yes. But the overall feeling I was left with when I finished was a sort of emptiness. Repeatedly getting so wasted that you can't remember what you did except for those embarrassing photos, acting so obnoxious that you have to write letters of apology to your hosts seems like behavior you can excuse in college but not much longer. Some of the episodes were moving--mostly the one about her parents relationship and her mother's hospitalization. But the majority could have been subtitled How I Behaved Badly at a Wedding. And I really did tire of reading about her clothes and shoes and how much they cost and where she got them. The book feels like a good magazine article that was stretched too far.
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5.0 étoiles sur 5 Fun to read, makes you think 14 juillet 2014
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I laughed out loud throughout this smart, engaging book. At times, I gasped in embarrassed horror at the situations described in vivid detail. The author's tales of attending wildly different weddings illustrate her intimate relationships with friends, lovers and family, and each wedding provides a new perspective for her to thoughtfully consider herself and the world around her. Her examination of society, cultural norms, generational differences, marriage, heartbreak, life choices, love and how she fits into it all challenges the reader to think more critically about what it really means to partner with another human for life.
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1.0 étoiles sur 5 Could not even finish 10 décembre 2014
Par Lydia D. - Publié sur
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I bought this expecting it to be funny (or at least amusing) wedding stories - instead the first half (which is all I can attest to because I couldn't make it any further than that) is basically the author rambling on about how fine she is with being single, (really guys, she's totally fine).
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1.0 étoiles sur 5 Not what I expected 16 juin 2014
Par Natalie - Publié sur
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I was expecting a lighthearted read on a single girls experiences as a wedding guest and bridesmaid. Maybe I'm a little too old to have read this book but I found her to be someone who has a drinking problem, is not a happy drunk and sleeps with whomever happens to be sitting next to her at the wedding. I felt I was more of a psychiatrist listening in on her problems rather than some funny wedding stories. I couldn't wait for the book to be finished.
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1.0 étoiles sur 5 Don't waste your time or money on this one. 7 juillet 2014
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This is a boring book with no plot. The author goes on and on about the many weddings she has attended and how drunken she has been and how badly behaved (presumably as a result of her drunkenness). There is no story to follow and nothing to be learned other then the fact that this girl shouldn't drink alcohol. I would not recommend this book.
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